Empowerment Through Surrender: The Power Hour Approach

In Ian Cron’s book The Fix, he argues what we have known to be true for years: every human would benefit from AlAnon or Codependents Anonymous (CoDA). Ian challenges the reader who hasn’t found a 12 Step group that feels like home to just start one. So, we did just that! Power Hour is modeled after AlAnon and CoDA. The name is inspired from Cron’s quote, “As it turns out, powerlessness is a superpower. It’s where the healing begins.”

We have hard things. And we have faith. The two are not mutually exclusive. The 12 Steps are a ‘How To’ guide for exercising our faith to find serenity in even the most difficult circumstances. We begin with the cornerstone Serenity Prayer. From there, the framework guide us to: 

  1. Identify the people, behaviors, or substances (aka, “attachments”) that we try and fail to control. In other words, what are our persistent sources of anxiety or numbness?
  2. Learn to let go of our attachment(s) while improving relationships with:
    • God (Steps 1-3)
    • Ourselves (Steps 4-7)
    • Others (Steps 8-12).
  3. Find meaningful community, comforted by the fact that we are not alone.

During Power Hour, we speak in confidence about our own experiences, and we listen without comment to what others share. Although it feels unnatural to a group of fixers, we are not here to fix other people. We work toward taking responsibility in our own lives, rather than giving advice to others. As the CoDA preamble states, it is our hope that women find here a new strength within to be that which God intended: PRECIOUS and FREE.