Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
An amend is a change in behavior, not just an apology. The word ‘amend’ means to add to something in order to improve it, complete it, restore it, and make it better. The purpose of an amend is to make peace.
The “amend” to ourselves is the ongoing process of stopping self-destructive behavior and starting to prioritize our well-being. Specific actions could include enforcing boundaries, prioritizing self-care, seeking healthy support, and changing our internal dialogue.
“[Step Nine] begins with willingness, with doing what is obvious, and with asking for and receiving Divine Guidance in the process.”
Melody Beattie
Themes
- We are responsible for our side of the street only.
- Self-respect is part of spiritual repair.
- Freedom through courageous action
Verses for Meditation
- “After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church.” Ephesians 5:29
- “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Proverbs 4:23
- “He refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake.” Psalm 23:3
- “So I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten.” Joel 2:25
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